Not friends but not dating
"The minute you’ve got sexual feelings towards a friend is the minute they’re more than just that." 'Fess up or give the friendship some time to chill — otherwise you'll probably just wind up acting like a freak.
Or, of course, there's the third option — your friend might want to just be a friend, in which case a little dose of acceptance needs to come into play."Being honest about your feelings is necessary in all relationships, but in this instance, truth telling is paramount, or you can find yourselves giving each other a lot of mixed messages that could ruin your friendship and your chances for a real relationship in the future," she says.